Tuesday, 4 January 2011

How To Build The Rhythm Of Endure

1. Be dilligent in learning about lesson to be a good child and good student, and never try to learn something that can make our heart lost in crime.
2. Always obey and listen to the parent's or the elder's order and teaching, without any delay.
3. Tell all daily schedule to parents, so they won't get worry.
4. Always ask any advice from parents when we met problems.
5. Help parents in taking care their carry stuff.
6. Protect and guide the younger.
7. Be dilligent in wake up in the morning, and never sleep late at night.
8. Don't taking too long when playing computer games or when playing outside home.
9. Be dilligent in put your and your family stuff in order.
10. Don't make a fool with the elder.
11. Be always give place to elder or pregnant women in public.
12. Listen and pay attention while teacher on teaching us.
13. While reading, eyes, mouth and heart should concentrate very good.
14. Never cheat in study, because it can open our ignorance.
15. In study, finish the first chapter before go to the next chapter.
16. Make friends to the people who better than us in kindness and cleverness in knowledge.
17. Be often study together.
18. Never too much open talk about our life to other friends and relations.
19. Give more, take less.
20. Never show off to the people who below us.
21. Giving cleverness to the people who below us.
22. Never hope any reply from anything or anyone.
23. Never take too serious to any problem.
24. Never blame other, always instropection ourself even when we didn't do anything wrong.
25. Never give up in trying, as long that is positive and kind things.
26. Never ruin other family's harmony.
27. Always have vision that "i'm still below from other, so we always still can climb up to the top".
28. Never force other people to trust of something, just because we already prove it.
29. Never force people to think and do any action same like us, just because that thought and that action is good for us.
29. Silent is the best way to answer all problem, silent doesn't shows that we didn't know anything, silent can melt the frozen heart.
30. Do some meditation regularly in a week, listen to our breath that comes out and comes in throught our nose.
31. Always try to find the right time.
32. Always try to find peaceful way or action.
33. Accept the mock and criticism as a correction and input which can build our personality.
34. Never feedback when people insult and slander us.
35. Never show our name as a helper or someone who has do merit for others, except he/she are very important person.

36. Be grateful to other people successful, like grateful for our own successful.
37. Be sad to other people failure, like sad for our own failure.
38. Never try to surpass the other, just because we thristy of praise and profit.
39. Be often seeing the similarity than compare the differentiation.
40. Always compare someone between his/her past with his /her present and future.
41. Treat other people like we want to be treat of.
42. Be practice to be on time in every condition, except something important obstacle us.
43. Be practice always say "hello", "excuse me", "sorry", "thank you", and "goodbye" at the right condition and the right time.
44. Always understand and realize first other people weakness and bussiness, without we want to be understand by them.
45. Always talking in calm voice with people who stand near to us.
46. Always talking a bit loud in crowded place or very far distance to other people.
47. When we forget something or left someting, never talking too much like the end of the world.
48. Never took other people creation as our creation.
49. Never too much thinking or sad because of our bad days in the past.
50. Never measure how big our merit is.
51. Make our mistakes as experience and lesson for us.
52. Always make other people mistakes as lesson for us, but not as our experience.
53. Never laugh to other people mistakes.
54. Praise other people kindness even it small kindness.
55. Never involved other people to our problems.
56. Avoid adult and crime conversations.
57. Love own country products.
58. In spare time we should learn languages and cultures.
59. Becareful to our weakness which always did mistakes to other.
60. Never flatter the rich and never humiliate the poor.
61. Never scared the coward people.
62. Never make fool to neurotic (follow moving desease) people.
63. Never spit in public, better do it in toilet.
64. Never sneezing in front of people face.
65. Always hold and throw fart inside the body.
66. Always start our days with smile (after wake up).
67. Give some hug at the right time for other, it can give shade feeling to other people's heart, and it also can heal our heart.
68. Always give support to kindness activities.
69. Never proud because we are stand in the right side, feel sad because other is stand in the wrong side.
70. Stop thinking bad imagination about others and things.
71. Always pray for our strength when we loose in a competition, never pray to make other loose from us.
72. Abstain from fermented drink and drugs that causes heedlessness.
73. Moving and walking must in mindfulness and very becareful.
74. Never fast speed driving in public street.
75. Use helmet when on mototrcycle and use seatbelt in car.
76. Honestly pay tax.
77. Don't use pirate things (software, movie, song, stuff).

Monday, 3 January 2011

Why Not Go To Church By Yourself?

boy : sister, please accompany me to go to church ..
girl : why if you go by yourself, brother? (because we go to different church)
boy : i don't have friend there ..
girl : is there any your enemy in church? (fact: according to dharma all people is friends each other, we shouldn't see people as enemy)
boy : no ... but i'm lonely
girl : but the temple is crowded place, how can you be lonely? (fact: a lot of people come to church, many person you can ask to be new friends)
boy : ... i feel not good if i meet the priest ..
girl : the priest will happy to see you come to temple even alone, he not happy just because you always come with your friends always (fact: priest always happy if people still doing good things even when he is alone)

note : don't be afraid to come to church even when you are alone, the important is you go to church, and the benefits will become yours.

I Want To Be Like Other People

Sister : "I want to become like my brother ..
He so strong,
He never crying,
He is a leader,
He also hardworker ..."

Brother : "I want to become like my sister ..
She calm,
She is a very symphatic person,
She can take care kids,
She can cook ..."

We always want to be another person, because we always never realize our own ability.
So, don't forget to accept yourself just the way you are.

Control Your Anger

When bad things happening, dont blow yourself with anger, my friends.
Everytime bad things coming, close your eyes and take deep breath, count 1 to 10 then back to 1 again in your heart, then u say in your heat "i'm not angry", then open your eyes, you will feel better.

Basic Meditation For Controling Anger

To loose our anger, we can do some basic meditation.
Meditation is good if we do it when early morning after we get up in the morning, and at night before we fall asleep.
And we should do this everyday.



First we sitting like meditation way, and then we can choose 1 from 2 ways can be use :
1. Breath calm and close out mouth, then in our mind we count from 1 to 100 then back to 1 again.
2. Take deep breath from our nose and hold it for few second and then blow it out from our mouth, do it many times for a 5 to 10 minutes.

Money

It can buy a House .. But not a Home
It can buy a Bed .. But not a Sleep
It can buy a Clock .. But not Time
It can buy you Book .. But not Wisdom
It can buy you a Position .. But not Respect
It can buy you Medicine .. But not Health
It can buy you Blood .. But not Life
It can buy Entertainment .. But not Satisfaction
It can buy Silencer .. But not Serenity
It can buy Food .. But not Energy
It can buy Bodyguard .. But not Safetiness
It can buy Plastic Surgery .. But not Beautiness Of Heart
It can buy Ransom .. But not Key to Heaven

Keep your ...

Keep your thoughts positive because your thoughts become your words.
Keep your words positive because your words become your behaviors.
Keep your behaviors positive because your behaviors become your habits.
Keep your habits positive because your habits become your values.
Keep your values positive because your values become your destiny.
~ Gandhi ~

Positive Thinking

1.    Always positive and not influence by anything or anyone
2.    Can take back ourself from negative things which will appear
3.    Not drowning ourself to a mistake that we had made, but we cultivate that kind of conditions
4.    Avoiding longterm accident because negative thinking
5.    Find a peaceful shape inside heart
6.    Getting a relax mind, so all our action is good, focus, and very clear vision
7.    Control our ignorance about something and situations
8.    Emotions and words are guarding well inside
9.    All works, questions and problems can solves very well and perfect with good concentration.